A Cougar is defined by Urban Dictionary as: An attractive woman in her 30′s or 40′s who is on the hunt once again. She may be found in the usual hunting grounds: nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc. She will not play the usual B.S. games that women in their early twenties participate in. End state, she will be going for the kill, just like you. Associated with M.I.L.F.’s.
With me being 26 (and some change) I am at a point in my life where men in my age range are in a semi mid life crisis where they aren’t sure if they are ready to give up the single life for one vagina for the rest of their lives or be that last bachelor of their inner circle. I’m at a point where I need steady sex that is mind-blowing and an occasional date while these “men” my age get it together! So what is a WOMAN with needs to do?
I recently ran into an old fling of mine from when I was a teenager. (He is a few years my junior. I was his first, kiss, love, etc.; I did everything with this boy except have sex. We ran into each other here and there locally but nothing came out of those brief meetings.) Out of the blue one night I have this very vivid dream of he and I having sex. The next day I hit him and let him know that the dream was almost too real and that it had me wanting to serve him with a #PussyPlatter!! Fast-forward a few months and we made it happen >insert 4th of July fireworks, bombs and explosions!!< The sex was the best – almost too good. Of course I had to make sure it just wasn’t a one time thing, IT WASN’T!
I had to share that story to let you know that when and if you want to go the Cougar route, you don’t have to entertain anything you don’t want to. You are not looking to settle. You are looking for arm-candy and great sex! No conversation is needed! You make the rules. He’s with it and if not: NEXT! There are plenty of young men that would love to be seen with a well-to-do beautiful older woman. Ladies he’s basically a human dildo! You know sometimes you just need that throbbing sensation at the end of a great session and your dildo doesn’t give that to you, well let me tell you HE DOES! Of course when you go this route you are not worried about being wined and dined as you are the hunter and he is the prey so it is your job to do the wining and dining. You may even come across some that want to play “Big Man” don’t stop him. Let him feel like the Big Man on Campus, you can even stroke that ego on the way home making his head bigger. This is all a part of your strategy anyway.
He knows what you are there for; you know what you want him for. Don’t make the situation more complicated by being a stereotypical woman tying in emotions with sex!
Let your hair down, have fun and enjoy the stares of the older men and women when you have your young piece by your side.
Stop being dull and live it UP!
Written By Jhonae @Jezzahbella