SINGLE AND READY TO MINGLE…WITH SOMEONE MARRIED!
Okay so often we hear about women who only date married men, and rarely hear about the men. Well over the weekend I ran into 3 men who are in their late 30′s and they all date married women only. Shocking, well it shouldn’t be, they all are afraid of commitment, and this is exactly what they explained to me. Of course you know they didn’t admit to being afraid but that is what is all boil down too. They are in these fly by day and night relationships with these married women with no hopes of ever being committed to just one!
Some of them deal with rich married women who can support them financially as well with no day to day obligation to them. These men explained to me that it is the best thing not to have to “report” to any woman ever. They are never hassled with back to back phone calls and pop up visit, EVERYTHING is planned and scheduled at a certain time and day.
After speaking with these men, one question popped up in my head, “What if these married women fall in love?”
Well the men quickly replied that they end the relationship and dead all ties between the two, and they even go as far as changing numbers, and sometimes changing location. I just coudn’t imagine having to do all these things with someone who you have no commitment to. I explained to these men that if you have to go to the extreme when the woman falls in love then guess what Honey,there was a commitment. It may not have been the traditional commitment but there is one, PERIOD!
The fact for SOME people is, Love does not have any real limits or boundaries. Love does not know what limits are. You may think you know because you have self interest in this matter. It is very possible to love more than one person at the same time. Only society and its social conventions and restrictions tries to put a cap on that because it upsets the idea of marriage stability. The fact is, we are what we are, rules or not, laws or not, morals or not, we are human beings and we are all perfectly capable of loving multiple persons at the same or different times in our lives. And its not just men either…