Okay so I was having a conversation wit my older friends and have come to the conclusion that they were and are making mistakes in the bedroom and this is why they leave the bed unsatisfied. So check this out Honies I am going to educate you on what not to do or worry about to keep the sex in your life super dee duper pleasurable!
Sex Mistake #1: Worrying about your body
So the numbers on the scale aren’t what you’d like them to be. Putting on weight is no excuse for avoiding sex. Or maybe you’re fine with your weight but there’s some other figure flaw you’re fixating on. Guess what? If he wants to have sex with you, he thinks you’re sexy. If your self-image is hindering your sex life, consult a therapist, or try this WORK OUT!!!
Sex Mistake #2: Not educating him
Pleasing a woman is no easy task Honey. So help him out! Give him explicit directions – when, where, how hard, how fast, and more.
If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally, find another way. For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie, say something like, “That’s a good move” or “That doesn’t do it for me.” Or read “The Tao of Sexuality” it will change both your lives. Let out a moan when he does something that pleases you. Because when it comes to sex, communication is key.
Sex Mistake #3:Thinking he’s always UP!
This might hold true for teenage boys, but not necessarily for men. Once males hit their mid-20s, a whole lot of things are competing for their energy. Pressures of work, bills and everyday life can put a major damper on his libido.
“He’s not like a vibrator,” as Proseffesional Sexpert puts it. “You can’t just plug him in and expect him to perform on cue.” That doesn’t mean he doesn’t desire you anymore. He just truly may not be in the mood.
Sex Mistake #4: Thinking sex ends when he climaxes
Just because he’s been fulfilled doesn’t mean you’ve been. Let him know you’re not done yet; help him find other ways to finish the job using his hands or mouth. If he’s consistently too wiped out to give you the attention you deserve, plan to have your needs met beforehis next time. Bring out he toys and show him that you NEED the satisfacion he just had if not more!
Sex Mistake #5: Going crazy when he suggests something new
Most of us do the same thing day in and day out. And whether it’s in the bedroom or the boardroom, routine can get boring. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to spice up your love life. Men like looking at, trying out and experimenting with new things; there’s nothing sinister about it. Suggesting something new is not an implied criticism of you. It’s just a simple craving for variety. The best part is that he wants to try it with you.
So in short, if you really want a relationship’s sex life to stay healthy do things experiment with spicy things like getting your man a lap dance, go to swinger club and just watch. You can create a fantasy for your Man an this will send his stamina through the roof! Just because a couple is in love doesn’t mean the sex will stay and ALWAYS be great just like anything else you have to work!