This past weekend, I celebrated my 29th birthday with my very good friends and we practically partied all week (birthday recap post coming soon), so it’s only fitting that I finally do my astrology post. When I was younger, I thought the whole astrology thing was a bunch of crap, but as I’ve gotten older and started paying more attention, I see so many similarities in those who share like signs. I have a good girlfriend that would always ask us, “…so what’s his sign?” It was like a prerequisite for whether she would even listen to the rest of the conversation. Lol. She’s always believed in the connectivity between couples based on their astrology….and I’m starting to think she’s right.
Recently, I bought 2 books to help with my new found theory. Lol. One is “Cosmic Coupling: the Sexology of Relationships” and the other “The Power of Birthdays, Stars, & Numbers.” I got the recommendation for the last one from one of my besties, who I always jokingly call my soul mate. We finish one another’s sentences, find ourselves simultaneously reading the same books, and can talk for hours on end about love, fashion, or anything else and will look up, not even realizing how much time has passed. So of course when I opened the book he recommended, under my birthdate, there are a list of categories and dates for people that are special in your life. Under the soul mate category is his birthday. Go figure. And here’s what…this is my Gusband (gay husband-most girls have at least one; some people find the term mildly offensive but he doesn’t. It’s just my way of saying “my bestie.” And, I’m very loyal to him. Only one Gusband. Lol). So romantically there will never be anything between us, but spiritually, we connect in a way that I’ve come to realize is incredibly rare. So was it fated by the stars that we’d meet? Or was that just a coincidence? I happen to believe in fate. I do believe we make decisions that can steer us toward misdirection, but I know some things are just meant to be. Sometimes you can feel it.
The three men I’ve loved in my life have all been greatly significant. Now, obviously I couldn’t end up with all of them, but the love I shared with each of them was real and the things we got to learn and experience with one another are inexplicable. But what happens when the fire between two people isn’t enough? When you feel so connected to someone you can feel them enter a room, their voice makes the hair on your skin raise, and you almost “need” to be around them…but for some reason “forever” isn’t in the stars for you…it’s hard. Very hard. So do you fight for it? Or learn the lesson you’re supposed to get and store it in the bank of great memories…My last two loves share the same sign, but they have different birth months which I’m starting to see makes a world of difference. They share so many commonalities but one is more intense than the other and his birthday is allegedly more fitting with mine. And I must say, we get along a lot better. Lol.
So all in all, I have to say there’s something to this thing. Like with me, I’m a cusp baby. I was born on April 20th and I can see both Aries and Taurus in myself. My very dominating personality is oftentimes mixed with extreme passion, and one sided stubbornness. I can be a lot. That’s for sure. And it’s imperative that I end up with someone who I’m not only compatible with, but who can accept me and my flaws just as I’m prepared to do for them. Once I finish the books, I’ll do a part two on the details of the dates. I’m looking forward to it! Now, tell me, are you guys into astrology? What books have you read? What sign is your “soulmate?” Comment in the section below or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Have a SuperGorge Day Dolls!